Do not just wait and see. In the past, people often used a wait and see approach, because many children recover spontaneously from stuttering. Now we do this "in a controlled way", namely under the professional guidance of a speech therapist who is specialized in stuttering. Sometimes tailored advice from the speech therapist leads to recovery from stuttering. When spontaneous recovery does not occur, stuttering treatment is necessary. The speech therapist makes a decision together with you about starting stuttering treatment and takes factors such as family prevalence of stuttering, the evolution of stuttering since its onset ... into account.
Contact a speech therapist in time. It is essential that stuttering treatment is delivered by a speech therapist specialized in stuttering. Research shows that early treatment (at least one year before the age of 6) is most effective. Even as a parent, you can always contact the speech therapist for support.
It is normal to be concerned if you notice that stuttering fluctuates. Stuttering often becomes more severe when your child is tired or excited, is talking about complex or new topics, is asking or answering questions, or is talking to inattentive listeners. Talking in a calm way with your child helps. It is important to show your child that you are listening. Look at the child and respond to what he or she says. In addition, acknowledge your child's concerns when when he or she indicated being bothered by them.
Some tips for a conversation:
- Take time for a conversation.
- Be relaxed and look at the child while you listen.
- Wait your turn to speak and do not interrupt your child.
- Respond to what your child says and not to how it was said.
In this way, your child experiences that he/she is given time to speak and that stuttering is allowed.